I was just watching the Today show...and there is this woman talking about what secrets are "OK" to keep from a spouse...one question was about when a friend tells another friend a secret should you keep that from your spouse? Please! I know those kind of people that think they have to tell their spouse everything, even secrets of a friend. I just don't get that.

If I share something with a friend that I don't want to be shared with anyone else, I should be able to trust my friend and know she is not going to go tell her spouse the secret. The idea is that not ALL secrets are supposed to be shared with your other half. The only secrets that should not be kept from a spouse are secrets that are directly about that relationship. And even then, there are certain guidelines you want to go by, because do you really want to share your every thought with your lover... NOT!

This woman on the Today show said, if your the kind of person that tells your husband everything and your friend wants to share a secret to let her know first that you tell everything to your spouse. I think if a friend of mine said that to me I might slap her and say...wake up Biotch! LOL

I am single and am getting so frustrated that people in relationships that think their head has to be kept up their lovers butt! The important part of a good relationship is both people having their own interests and friends and then coming together for the good stuff. My hobbies are just that and I want those hobbies to myself away from my significant other and I want them to have their hobbies without me and then I with that person to share the "other things" with. That is my idea of the "perfect" relationship. Will I ever find it?

Oh well, so much for that rant. I'll sign off and go on and continue this spectacular dream. Peace out.