I was just watching the Today show...and there is this woman talking about what secrets are "OK" to keep from a spouse...one question was about when a friend tells another friend a secret should you keep that from your spouse? Please! I know those kind of people that think they have to tell their spouse everything, even secrets of a friend. I just don't get that.

If I share something with a friend that I don't want to be shared with anyone else, I should be able to trust my friend and know she is not going to go tell her spouse the secret. The idea is that not ALL secrets are supposed to be shared with your other half. The only secrets that should not be kept from a spouse are secrets that are directly about that relationship. And even then, there are certain guidelines you want to go by, because do you really want to share your every thought with your lover... NOT!

This woman on the Today show said, if your the kind of person that tells your husband everything and your friend wants to share a secret to let her know first that you tell everything to your spouse. I think if a friend of mine said that to me I might slap her and say...wake up Biotch! LOL

I am single and am getting so frustrated that people in relationships that think their head has to be kept up their lovers butt! The important part of a good relationship is both people having their own interests and friends and then coming together for the good stuff. My hobbies are just that and I want those hobbies to myself away from my significant other and I want them to have their hobbies without me and then I with that person to share the "other things" with. That is my idea of the "perfect" relationship. Will I ever find it?

Oh well, so much for that rant. I'll sign off and go on and continue this spectacular dream. Peace out.

Flames, Vast

Well...the year of 2009 is almost gone. It's hard to believe really. I've learned a lot this year about a variety of things concerning friends, family and flames...some flames never die. So life goes on and the fire still burns...forever. Peace to everyone and peace out.

Well another day to work when others aren't working. I'm trying to get things sorted around the house as I am getting ready to move my office to a high traffic location. I have decided to move from the house I've been living for almost 10 years to a new location where my office will be visible to traffic. Having my office location in my home is essential in my line of work and paying for an office and a house is way too much for my budget. The house is very nice and has great potential once I get in there and "Leisaize" it. :) Because it is a commercial space but zoned for also living most people in the past have just rented it for only commercial, so it needs a little love and care because the tenants that were in it before never gave it much of that and it shows some. I'll change that real soon!

While this is an exiciting venture, leaving my home of almost 10 years is kind of sad for me. It's been a great home, and selling it is difficult. However, being single, I just don't have the time for the upkeep. So after much contemplating, I now know this is what I must do for a few reasons. My main reason is having a visible location for my work is essential. I will be nestled in a quaint cozy village and off the main road with approximately 30,000 vehicles per day going by. The village has brick streets and is tranquil and only about 5 minutes from where I live now, so it's not that far of a move. Also, not owning at this time is a welcome relief...I just have too much on my plate to worry about a property that has to be kept up and maintained. Having to hire out all the work is expensive and money that I just don't have right now. So...on to a new transition in my life...I'm excited, the kids are excited. I will also have a retail outlet for my clients, so there will be a store front that also brings in traffic to my location. So my new year will be full of a lot of painting and preparing of my new dwellings location. :)

Life is all about transition and I am transending onward and upward. :) Peace out!

Well today is the first official work day after the holiday...however many people don't return to work until January 4th, which can be rather frustrating. I know I can be a workaholic...so I don't expect the same work ethics, but it's hard enough to get people to work when they are working...let alone giving them an excuse to take several days off. Oh well, it is what it is. So any money that I need to collect, or any responses that I am waiting for won't be received or responded to till after the new year. UGH

I guess I need to remember back years ago to the mentality when I was in a job that I didn't like going to. That drive in rush hour traffic...the office politics and knifes in your back from competitive co-workers....now I know why they aren't returning till after the new year. Well...I guess that's my input for the day. Peace out kiddos. ;)

Well, here it is the 27th of December. My idea was to at least blog every day and I haven't. So, starting today I will blog everyday.

So, the holidays are over and we are approaching the New Year. 2010 ready or not here I come. My mentality for the new year is to focus. Not that I don't usually, but one thing I might do is focus and dream. So my new years resolution is to focus and once I focus then act on what I see clearly.

So lets think about that for a minute. You have a camera and your zooming in to focus on the stick bug sitting on a leaf. If the stick bug sticks around (no pun intended) and gives me the opportunity to get some great shots than I'm there shooting away but if he flies away, then I just need to realize the bug didn't want to be bugged. (no pun intended again) and move on, no matter how hard it may be and if it's meant to be...the stick bug will return for some great shots. Good analogy ya think? And I just came up with that this very second, not too shabby. You might wonder why use a stick bug for the anaology. I think they are absolutely the most coolest bugs on the planet. :) Peace out until tomorrow guys and gals.